Welcome to Your Heart’s Mind™
You live from the inside out, so manage change where it begins.
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Nature is a system that supports Life, in all its forms.
Where it all begins
Systems built on intellectual processes rely on the external world, what we experience through the senses. As a spiritual creature, the more reliable source of information is your internal world, the way you govern yourself as an individual. Current attention on meaning, calming the mind, and meditation practices are making us all recognize the inner strength we possess.
Only you know your own thoughts and sensations during life experiences. Nature sustains you as a living creature, providing what uniquely serves your purpose as an individual. The term “heart’s mind” came forward in my mind when I wrote the book about discovering Nature’s hidden system. I knew it was right before I could adequately describe it.
Now, over 20 years later, I know that your heart’s mind is all that is encompassed by your being: all levels of mind, sensations in your body that react instantly to circumstances, your relationships and the emotions they involve, and how you formulate your personal life agenda, as you live. All of it together is your heart’s mind. It is the “true north” of your unique world.
You need something more reliable than your conscious mind.
In my book, The Heart’s Mind, I described how I learned to watch my mind until I saw the twelve phases phenomenon. It gook four years before I felt sure enough to write down the sequence in 2002 and excitedly began sharing it. When I first published a small book about it, my understanding was sure: this system is a fact of Nature.
In 2012, encouraged by my best friend Joy, I created a book to capture for her, as plainly as possible, what I saw. Joy wanted to have it in print to share with her family and friends. Now I shook with nervous energy. As a lifelong writer, publishing is a sacred process to me that carries a huge responsibility. The fact that Joy wanted to own a copy was a big step forward.
As a small business system designer, I applied what I knew and began creating systems to support the drive entrepreneurs live by. I was living by these systems because my personal vision about the phases permeated my life and work. I experienced unfaltering joy in work. I was happy working because there was a purpose unique to me. I felt its truth and saw it at work in my life.
In 2018, I decided that my failure to “sell” my systems in a business service meant it was only for me. I put all my writing and designs aside and looked for a place for myself in reality, as others do. That pause, denying my mind’s agenda, gave my heart the chance to rise up. You’re not done, it said.
So I decided to print out everything I had been writing since 2012, just to review. It was obvious that I had ideas about applying the phases that missed the mark. But there were some compositions that stayed true to the heart of the phases, that actually gave true descriptions of successful experiences. Led by intuition rather than a plan, I assembled the worthy writings into a book. After all the years of working the discovery, I had a reasonable product.
Having a book in print represents the launch of my life’s work - including the lifelong hope of publishing. You can buy the book on Amazon.com: The Heart’s Mind: How Unconscious Responses in Life and Work Naturally Improve Our Lives While We Make Other Plans. It holds a place in history, forever marking this life-centering change that I offer to others.
Why should you care?
What if your greatest source of motivation is inside you, waiting to be recognized?
Through Heart’s Mind™ Coaching, you will learn to use the 12 Phases™ as a way to see the movement of your life through an objective lens. Your experiences are the source of your totally unique life experience. The rhythm of the 12 Phases™ will become a constant reference that can guide your decision-making.
Throughout the day, you are looking out into circumstances, assessing their value, pulling from your relationship choices regarding each person involved. Sometimes, it’s a second-by-second movement in your subconscious, weighing many factors at once for each situation.
You are amazing - and sometimes you’re wrong about the direction that’s truly good. Nature takes care of the direction that is truly good for you. The twelve phases phenomenon is a living system constantly working for you, keeping you alive - as an individual.
Your heart’s mind is the deepest knowledge that has to do with you alone. Your heart’s mind is building you, according to your unique structure. It knows you from birth. If you know how this system works, you become affirmed in your individuality.
At significant times during your life, you act unconsciously out of your heart’s mind. These unconscious responses skip your conscious mind and move you directly from your heart’s mind. We are unaware of unconscious responses and that makes sure that in those significant situations, your movements serve your life’s positive direction.
With Heart’s Mind™ coaching, we begin with that truth. Your heart’s mind is constantly drawing you in a positive direction, collecting from life the bits that build you up, at your core. We are not hindered in life; freedom in all situations provide the opportunity of choice.
Nature is reliable.
Developed from over two decades of research and real-life application, this coaching approach is built on the way Nature protects and supports individuals. Instead of imposing change from the outside, we work with what Nature is already unfolding as your personal growth. Nature is systematic and understandable.
Let’s affirm where you are with this amazing process..
This is not a fix. It’s a recognition of your individuality.
You’re not broken. You’re in process, growing from inborn strength.
This coaching is for you if...
You are in a life transition and want to move forward with clarity.
You sense something meaningful is at work, but can’t yet see it.
You’re leading (or living) from the outside in — and want to reverse that.
You’re curious about what’s quietly organizing your life beneath the surface.
How We Work Together
We begin with conversation, not conversion. There’s no hard sell — just a mutual exploration of whether this process feels right for you, right now. Can you imagine collaborating to see yourself clearly, in your greatest strength? We watch how Nature keeps you on track, in a way that you recognize and use.
If we decide to work together, you’ll learn to:
Identify which of the 12 Phases™ you’re currently in.
Work with — not against — your natural rhythm of change.
Translate inner growth into meaningful outer direction.
You don’t need to rush. You need to recognize.
Ready to explore?
I invite you to start by noticing what’s already stirring in your life.
Your next step may not be big — but it will be real.
The Power of 12 Days: How Transformation Unfolds Before We Even Realize It
Sometimes, change happens so naturally that we don’t even see it until we look back. That’s what makes the 12 Phases™ so powerful—they reveal the quiet, unconscious shifts that moves you forward, even when you feel stuck. I recently witnessed this firsthand in a 12-day coaching journey, where a client moved through a remarkable transformation, even before they fully realized it themselves.
The Challenge: A Sense of Uncertainty
When we began, my client—let’s call them Alex—was struggling with a deep sense of uncertainty. They weren’t lost, exactly, but they felt disconnected from their own direction, unsure of what was holding them back. They had tried logic, problem-solving, even forcing motivation, but nothing seemed to click.
Rather than searching for an immediate answer, we focused on something else: where Alex was in their personal cycle of growth.
The Turning Point: Trusting the Process
As we explored their experience through the 12 Phases™ lens, something fascinating happened. Alex started recognizing patterns—moments of resistance, unexpected clarity, and even hidden strategies they had been using without realizing it. The shift wasn’t about “fixing” anything. It was about seeing what was already at work within them.
By Day 6, Alex still didn’t feel different. But they were responding differently. They were more aware of their own unconscious process, and that awareness was already shifting their next steps.
The Transformation: A New Perspective
By Day 12, the real change became clear. The hesitation they felt at the start wasn’t a sign of failure—it was a natural phase of their cycle. With this awareness, Alex wasn’t just moving forward; they were moving forward with clarity. The same circumstances were there, but their relationship to them had changed.
And that’s the essence of transformation—it’s often clearer in hindsight.
The Takeaway: Your Growth is Already in Motion
If you’ve ever felt uncertain or stuck, it doesn’t mean you’re off track. It might just mean you’re in a phase of your own growth cycle that you haven’t recognized yet. The process is already happening—you just need to see it.
This is what we explore in Heart’s Mind™ coaching. Not by forcing change, but by uncovering the deeper movement already within you. If you’re curious about your own cycle of growth, let’s start a conversation.